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September 13, 2005

恋愛とは・・・

僕の考えるところ、恋愛とは

「恋」=自分の好きだと言う思いを一方的に相手に伝えること。
「愛」=相手の思いを受け止め、返すこと。

と思っております。
これで行くと僕の今までに聞いたことのある恋愛話
上手くいっている話や終わってしまった話の原因が
説明できるんです。

だから、お互いの思いを確かめ合い、交際を始めたなら
結婚しても、子供が出来ても死ぬまで恋愛をしないと
お互いの思いがわからず、離婚や失恋になってしまう。


しかし、今の僕はこんな大きな事を言えるほどのことをしていない。
なぜなら、今、僕は恋愛の恋の方で精一杯だからです。

彼女(ってまだ付き合っているわけではない)は、
舞台の制作の仕事をしていて、僕より1つ年上。
同じ夏のバイトで知り合い、何とか僕のほうからメールアドの
交換をしてもらい。
2.3日前まで普通にメールしていました。
その中で、今度、彼女の関わっている舞台を見行くことになり
また、その後映画の約束もしました。

しかし、最近困ったことがおきました。
彼女に「彼氏いるの?」と聞いたところ、
「いるような、いないような・・・まだ付き合うって決めてない人が
いるような・・・」って返事がきました。

これってどうなんでしょうか?
僕としては、彼女の中の僕の位置を知りたくて
「彼氏いたの?彼氏がいるのに映画行くの?」って聞いたんです。
しかしそれ以来メールが来なくなってしまいました。

聞き方まずかったかな・・・?

さっき、電車男の再放送を見ました。
主人公が「好きな人を待っている時は永遠のように長く
好きな人と一緒の時は刹那のように短い」と言っていました。

その通りですな。

実際、メールが途切れてからまだ一週間経ってないんですよね。
彼女の仕事も山場を迎えてきっとメールも打てないんでしょう。
って考え方もできますが・・・
僕にとっては、飽きられたかな~?って気持ちでいっぱいです。

あぁ~どうしよ????
困った困った・・・

また、変化があったら書き込みます。
ではでは。。。

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頑張って!!人は好きだと自分の気持ちをストレートに言ってくれる人がいるととっても幸せになれるから!結果はともあれ後悔しない行動を頑張ってください!!!今私は恋愛しています。彼氏とです。前の彼とはずっと中途半端な関係で、結局死にそうになりながら別れて1年(別れを切り出したのは私です)、ボロボロな時期を過ごしました・・・。
 今の彼が好きといってくれてかわりました。愛したいと思える今の自分にビックリです。タイプとか、恋愛傾向とか、そういうものが今なくなっちゃいました☆変化まってます!!自分の中の変化が一番大事かも!! ちなみに、友達いわく私は全く恋愛体質ではないようです(笑)自分でもそう思います・・

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